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ERG: Step 1- Bridging the Gap: Acknowledge the Gap Exists
On our journey to personal growth and development, one of the most important things we can do is acknowledge the gap between our expectations and reality. This may seem like a simple step, but it can be surprisingly difficult to do. This gap, often called the “Expectation-Reality Gap,” can be a source of frustration and…
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When Conversations Twist (Part 6): Navigating Toxicity with Grace
In today’s world, the term “toxic behavior” is thrown around a lot more than we’d like. It’s a reality in our workplaces, social circles, and even our homes. As Christians, we’re always looking for guidance on how to deal with these situations, and thankfully, Scripture offers us a helpful compass. When we encounter difficult people,…
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When Conversations Twist (part 5) “The Bystander’s Dilemma
When and How to Intervene Matthew 5:9 (NIV) says, “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” This beatitude isn’t just a passive call for peace; it’s an active instruction to engage in the restoration and healing of our communities. As Christians, we’re called to be peacemakers and to uphold the…
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When Conversations Twist (Part 4): Responding to Manipulation
Click here for more of the articles in the When Conversations Twist Series. A Guide to Self-Preservation Proverbs 4:23 (NIV) “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” In the face of manipulation, the wisdom of Proverbs guides us to protect our innermost convictions. Guarding our heart isn’t just a…
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When Conversations Twist (Part 3): The Art of Self-Reflection in Conflict
Differentiating Between Genuine Shortcomings and Imposed Faults Click here for more of the articles in the When Conversations Twist Series. Matthew 7:5 (NIV) “You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” The call to self-reflection is a divine…
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Recognizing the Smoke & Mirrors: Dissecting Manipulative Tactics
Ephesians 6:12 (NIV) “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” As we navigate the maze of manipulative tactics, it’s important to remember that the real battle is…
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When Conversations Twist: Understanding Toxic Dynamics in Relationships
Have you ever left a conversation feeling utterly disoriented, questioning your reality, or even doubting your sanity? I have. It’s like walking into a room with the intention of tidying it up, only to have the lights switched off the moment you start. You reach out, expecting to restore order, but instead, you find yourself…
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DEVOTIONAL: Contemplating the Glory of God
2 Corinthians 3:18 (NIV): “And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.” This scripture provides us with a beautiful and encouraging insight into the transformative power of our relationship with Christ. The passage begins…
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5 Assessment Questions for Ministry Leaders in the Church
Take some time 2-3 times a year to evaluate your growth areas in leaders. This is a great resource to use to help you stay accountable to what God is doing in and through your life. Get together with a few others and share your thoughts and reflections. 1. Influence on Spiritual Growth: How have…
